Posts by: "Dafina"
Stand Strong Within
If we are not strong in our divine spiritual connection, NOW is the time to connect with it. Some folks don’t know how to differentiate the Voice of Reason from the worldly voice. Time to listen deeply. Pull yourself away from the noise by listening to the Silence. Focus on that part of you called your Soul. The True Voice of The ALL Holy hasn’t a speck of pettiness. It will NOT soothe your ego but IT will show you ways to rise above its rule. Strengthen your connection with your Divine Self and stay connected with recognition and with gratitude. Little practices of gratitude, especially when challenges make you feel forsaken, strengthen your spiritual resolve. Gratitude clears mental toxins out of the way of your true vision.
Do daily exercises where you keep your mind on Spirit. “S/he will remain in perfect peace whose mind is stayed on Thee.” Know that NOTHING is outside Divine Order. Everything occurs for a reason. Ask and receive your answer. It’s a quiet practice, not one that can play out on social media. Ground yourself in Divinity. Hold IT tightly and let it permeate your entire being. Walk out into the world protected with ITS light, ITS blessings, and ITS protection! “There is NO weapon that will prosper against me, not even my own mind.” That’s the affirmation I sent my child out in the world with, and til this day, I say it to myself, as does he.
We are here for our collective Souls’ evolution. There will be many illusions to distract us from our true mission. If you’ve been studying divine spiritual teachings, now is the time to use what you’ve learned. Saturate your inner being with Sacred Truths. Shhh, don’t put so much energy in the media machines. They will raise your blood pressure, tell you whom to hate, but will do nothing to strengthen your spiritual resolve. We MUST have store our energy, not scatter it. It’s not easy for folks to get this. I find myself speaking words to give reasons for my absence, my illness, my withdrawal, but that’s silly. I am doing what I need to do to be in the world we have created. If I don’t grow me, who will? Grow yourself. It’s more important than growing your business, but you can still grow it. We still need to eat and pay our bills. However, we must also understand that everything we see is temporary.
Do NOT be swayed by the goings-on in this world of illusions. Be steadfast to your inward journey. When all else is taken, that’s what counts. My Poppy used to tell me, nothing you have or will ever have has more value than what you walk with, develop your integrity. That’s basic Principle. Walk in the Holy Light. Connect with all that’s sacred surrounding you. Differentiate between what has true value and what is distracting your Soul from its evolution.
Stand firm in your sacredness. We need to recognize ourselves as sacred. When you know that you know that you know, you know you are in the HANDS of THE SACRED ONENESS. IT does not need worldly goods to thrive. IT simply is. Love is free of all the crap the world has handed us to separate from our wholeness. I Love You. Now, let’s stand strong through these current and impending storms. Start within. Blessed Love… #dafinaisms <3

“Take the choicest spices, of pure myrrh 500 shekels, of sweet cinnamon half so much, of sweet calamus…, of cassia, of olive oil…, and you shall sanctify them and they shall become most holy; whatsoever touches them shall be holy.” Exodus 30:23-29

In ancient days, aromatherapy was used to cleanse the body, soothe the spirit and reawaken the soul. Frankincense and myrrh were considered sacred oils used in the temples in ancient Kemet (Egypt). The priest/priestesses had sophisticated knowledge of the properties (i.e., antiseptic, antiviral, antibacterial, aphrodisiac) of the aromatic oils. They used them to preserve their dead, as in the case of King Tut, whose mummy was still intact centuries later. Contained in his tomb were the oils of frankincense, myrrh and spikenard, and they had all retained their fragrances!

During the plagues of Europe, it was the perfumers who survived because of the antiviral properties of the oils they used in their walking sticks that eventually made its way into their bloodstreams. Receptor sites were already filled up when the viruses tried to latch on. It was estimated that only 1 out of 3 people struck with the bubonic plague lived.

In 1937, French chemist, Rene-Maurice Gattefosse badly burned his hands while experimenting in his laboratory. He quickly dipped his hands into a vat of lavender essence because it was the closest thing he could go to for relief. Not only did the lavender cause the pain to decease, it also prevented the occurrence of scarring. Thus, began the re-introduction of the science of plant essences which Monsieur Gattefosse termed “aromatherapie,”  thus originating the term. This “miraculous” experience also spurred his desire to investigate the healing The actual term “aromatherapy” first originated in 1937 when French chemist Rene-Maurice Gattefosse invented the word after a burn incident spurred his curiosity about the healing power of essential oils.

With this brief, yet fascinating history in mind, please take the time to adventure into the fragrant world of aromatherapy. The essential oils are also used for  a wide variety of health concerns. They can ease headaches, calm menstrual cramps, ease stomach aches, soothe the nerves, uplift the spirits,  and aid sleep and breathing, all while creating a calm, relaxing environment. These are just a treasured few of the functions associated with the essential oils I use when creating I Treasure ME Aromatherapy products.

A brief history of ITM Aromatherapy products:

The olfactory sense is linked to the part of the brain that deals with the emotions. This is why you feel so much better after using them. Our smells create memories. With the essential oils, you can anoint your body, mind and spirit while keeping your environment blessed with holy fragrances. Our focus on sacredness is the key to our healing. As they say, “ain’t nuthin’ wrong with a lil spice.”

Visit I Treasure ME Product Page where you have the choice of three lusciously fragrant floral mists created with essential oils in a distilled water base. These alluring and intoxicating mists are designed to enliven your mind, calm your spirit and satisfy your soul. Spray frequently and enjoy the effects. More fragrances are being created, so stay tuned.

While the essential oil face and body mists, as air fresheners, to calm environments, like your office, or a conference room before and after meetings, to calm an agitated child… They have a multitude of uses. Discover yours and ENJOY!




Ah, the beauty of Flowers~

By R. Dafina Kuficha, L.Ac.

At the beginning of each new year, many people are expected to make resolutions. Too often, the resolutions are broken before they can set root. Long ago it became clear to me change can occur during any time of the year we make the decision to change. Why wait until the new year? Instead, review the following list of “Twelve steps to enriching your life,” and see which suggestions fit your needs. Focus on one of them for one full week.  Remember to modify the suggestions in the ways that fit YOU! Be kind to your process and make it enjoyable.

1)  Keep your promises, especially to yourself, including timelines.  Make procrastination a thing of the past. Do it NOW! Don’t wait until tomorrow. Take a moment before saying “yes” to something. Are you saying “yes” from your heart or your mind? Make a commitment to only say “yes” when it really works for you to keep your word. It’s okay to say, “I really don’t have room in my schedule for that right now. Let’s choose another time instead.” Do you first!

2)  Be flexible. Sometimes a life test is just that, a test. If you become rigid after challenging times, they remain challenging. The Tao Te Ching says, “Bend but don’t break.” Everyone needs change. Don’t fear change, embrace it.

3)  Cultivate a positive outlook. Life has challenges. A negative situation can teach you strength, compassion, kindness, gratitude and patience.

4)  Choose to make healthy food choices. Eating well means eating fresh, vital foods. Listen to your body. Do you really need to eat that piece of cake? Don’t eat until you’re full. Chew your food slowly and  control your portions.

5)  Develop the courage to be your authentic self. Often people don’t realize they are compromising themselves to be what will fill someone else’s expectations of them. Take time to know yourself. Our cares change with assessment and age. Things aren’t always as serious as we make them. What’s behind the anger? Find out and you can cure it. “Know thy self and to thy own self be true.”

6)  Develop stress management techniques and use them regularly. Get sufficient rest and sleep. Learn to meditate. Take a yoga, tai chi, dance, or swimming class. Listen to relaxing music in a quiet place. Take a walk in nature and bring a snack. Read a funny book, like “Calvin & Hobbes” or watch a funny movie. Quiet your mind.

7)  Use positive affirmations. “I love myself and won’t let anyone bring my spirit down.” “I am a money magnet.” “I use my time wisely.” “I take good care of my body, spirit, soul and mind.”

8)  Make wise financial choices. If you don’t have the money to buy a new dress, get your hair done, or go on that trip, put it off for a bit. Be creative, find free activities to enjoy.

9)  Be generous! Many people wish they had your fortune. Share. Adopt a homeless person and give them a gift certificate for food, clothes, movies, etc. Give generously and receive generously. Keep it balanced.

10) Declutter. If you don’t read it, wear it or share it, you don’t need it. Let it go! That goes for people, too. Keep your life simple and you’ll enjoy it more.

11) Have FUN! Take a scuba diving class; take singing classes; make healthy gourmet meals; travel abroad; visit museums; go dancing, and make new friends. Do things without the expectation of anything but a good time.

12) Keep your body, mind and spirit healthy with a great acupuncture treatment. Call my office to make your appointment today! And remember to take time to smell the roses, rosemary, lavender, jasmine, or whatever fragrance reminds you to value your joy.


The mind is like a fertile field.

If we contaminate it with the poisons of ignorance, desire, anger, jealousy, and pride, we will inevitably produce poisonous crops.

Acting carelessly or harmfully toward others, or working for our own benefit at the expense of others,
will only create limitation and suffering. Medicinal seeds — wholesome, virtuous acts of kindness, love, and compassion — will produce the fruits of peace and benefit.

Actions that are both positive and negative will produce a mixture of happiness and sadness. This is the principle of karma. Karma originates in the mind.

Our thoughts give rise to words and actions, and these have consequences.

We cannot plant poisonous seeds and expect edible or medicinal fruit.

When we begin to see the negative results of our self-centeredness, we understand why we must carefully choose which seeds to plant.

Our future is in our own hands.

–Lama Shenpen Drolma, from Change of Heart: The Bodhisattva Peace Training of Chagdud Tulku (Padma)

Every gardener knows that under the cloak of winter lies a miracle, a seed waiting to sprout,
a bulb opening to the light, a bud straining to unfurl. And the anticipation nurtures our dream.
~ Barbara Winkler

The characteristics of the water element are:

Season:		winter
Direction:		north
Climate:		cold
Organs:		kidneys (root of yin & yang)
Tissue: 		bone
Opens to:		the ears
Sense:		hearing
Taste:		salty
Energy: 		stagnation
Emotion:		fear
Expression:	trembling
Sound:		groaning
Fluid:		urine
Color: 		black/navy blue
Manifests:	head of hair
Faculty:		will